The Real Attraction

The Outlook or Face don't attract me anymore....

Because mine own face has smashed two times in accidents and it was so horrible that even i was terrified by seeing deep cuts and wounds....so what if anyone who is just attracted because of  your outlooks and unfortunately you lose it then definitely that person will lose interest in you . 

The Money or Prosperity don't attract me anymore......

Last year on 28 October 2019 , 

I left my home to be monk because of family drama and manipulations but had to return home because family members again caught me on the way and started making drama on the road . My father's property total worth is more than   Millions .....And in mine whole life (after class 8th ) i never asked single rupees from my family beside it i given them money by winning many Arena fights - Science Project Championships - Speech Competition - GK Competition etc . I am not interested anymore in money because i can make it whenever i want  and how much i want....even in lacks just in age of 16 year  . 

Actually " Money is Just Amplifying Tool For Me "

Name or Fame don't attract me anymore.......

I have expertise in many skills....Yoga-Martial Arts-Poetry writing -Teaching-Preaching -Science Projects - New Blueprint formations - IT etc  which is far ahead than a common man . 

I can win in any of them at anytime even on National level . But i use them only when it fits in mine way of life .

Even I fought National Taekwondo Championship only when it was needed to prove myself in front of my family to allow for my next studies after my first brain stroke . Otherwise i was expert in this field since after Dec 2011  but used it only when i needed to fight for my dreams .

What Really Attracts me are....

Truthiness

The most attractive person is someone who tell own hard truths without any hesitation - fear .

It shows.........

how much that person is strong-brave in himself

how much that person confident in himself

how much honestly lived that person life 

how much that person trust on you ( Most attractive thing for me is truthiness )

Loyalty 

Loyalty means True Dedication.

Most beautiful responsibility is Loyalty .

Loyalty is a Royal Quality Which is not Made for Local / Low grade People  . Staying Loyal to Duties - Truthiness or Someone is Responsibility .

But nowadays it's most rare quality . People fall for love just after 10 -20 days with someone.....even a street dogs or bitches never do like this .People's  dedication is for pleasure not duties so when pleasure ends their dedication or loyalty ends .

A true Dedication or Loyalty means.......Stay for The Duty - Truthiness or Someone for Whole life even things are not in your favor . A true dedication without selfish motive is god gift.....don't expect it from someone just be the one . So, one day someone could accomplish own dreams by finding you .

Character 

Character doesn't mean no relationship at all in life ( Actually its ideal definition which must be followed as per Vedas but rare to follow when our culture is influenced by western cultures ) .

Nowadays , many people try to be with good one in their own perception but in most of cases selfish Boys/Girls use others to fulfill their selfish motives and leave them when it's accomplished or   not required anymore . 

Very rare people like me , have patience to wait and chose right one... type mindset .

I am patience because i am clear for my way of life - purpose and i exactly know with whom  i must go with....and most important when !

But most of people go with someone to accomplish their emotional need...because emotional freedom is rare now a days.....everybody need to someone to feel this emotional freedom . In such cases selfish people take advantage of innocent one and use them as per their need .

But what if someone was truly dedicated to someone.....that person used him and just leaved...It's doesn't mean that person is characterless....It means that person has been used by a selfish person .....But if someone has more than one relationships then better to stay away from such people because they are either characterless or fools ....fool is someone who repeat the same mistake again....characterless is someone who just live for body pleasure . 

So, Character means staying with just one or that just one memories  .

Values 

What will happen if someone have truthiness - loyalty - character but kills and eat animals just for test.....will that person ever work genuinely for Animal ( Many fake International Society exist those employee eat meat and they work to save Animals.....Universally there is no difference between lives  as per Higher Human Consciousness )  .

Values means Genuine Mercy - Good will - Selfless Creation - Kindness - Sympathy - Humanity .

This is the quality of human which attracts to every human to next one .......same as i also get attracted with such quality .

Moral

Moral means the way you treat others and surroundings .When someone talk with everyone with respect - politeness and live with silence......that's the  most attractive things . ( Until someone break your boundaries after it kick - punches allowed ) 

Moral is reflection of  your own identity towards others..........

If you are good soul....you will treat others good 

These are most common base qualities from which any person could be attracted . But when you live your life on advanced level then qualities requirement will be also higher such as.....

Vision , Creativity , Leadership etc

Don't stick with any person.....Wait and Watch with patience.....Filter people in your future frame....let them in your life.......test them and choose 

Even a government filter out common-people for a job.....

Why you will lower your standards or give pass to someone just because you feel attracted or indebted to them .......No , Never give a pass to someone when you have Ambitions.  

Filter Out.....

Let Them in.....

Test endurance - loyalty - mind set......

Give freedom - Authority ......

Test real character.......

Then Choose............or just kick out from the life

Most important keep working on yourself in higher aspect so when you leave to anyone then people could regret you , your company , your time..........

- Akash Aryavart